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Jisel's avatar

I love you, this is just the start to your next chapter 🫶🏾

SJ Oaks's avatar

💙🫶🏼thank you, lovely

vic's avatar

I HAVE AND ALWAYS WILL BELIEVE IN YOU.

SJ Oaks's avatar

THANK YOU. RAAAAAHHHH

Kadeem Marron's avatar

Your heart is on full display with this one. I’m so proud of you, my friend 🏆

SJ Oaks's avatar

I’m proud of you too. Thank you for your support 💙💙

sofina's avatar

Thank you for being vulnerable with us and sharing. Reading this felt so raw and genuinely touching. I’m so sorry, sawyer. :( I’m always here for you and sending you love!!

SJ Oaks's avatar

Love!!! 🫶🏼💙 Thank you.

Jada M's avatar

sawyer, I’m in awe. I feel all the emotions for you but more than anything I’m excited for you on this new journey of exploration. I’m captivated by your honesty. how you ripped your heart out while it’s still bleeding on a platter for us to bear witness to.

reading this led me to download substack which means your impact truly goes insane.

but for real never stop writing. the world needs it and your heart needs it.

SJ Oaks's avatar

😭I’m gonna cry. Thank you so much. I miss and love you dearly!!

Dr. Nicole Mirkin's avatar

Early divorce can feel like identity loss more than relationship loss, especially when it happens during major developmental transitions like finishing school or entering adulthood. In my work, I often see how quickly people start questioning their own worth rather than recognizing incompatibility patterns that were already present.

SJ Oaks's avatar

That feels very relevant. It’s an exploration of limbo. Who am I now and what’s next? But recognizing incompatibility is important in understanding that some people are simply not the right person, and that has little to nothing to do with who we are at the core.

Tyler's avatar

Love you much. Know there are so many blessings ahead for you. <3

SJ Oaks's avatar

<3 thank you my dear